What is it about being in a relationship that you love? Companionship Physical Affection (the simple pleasure of having a woman run her fingers through his hair) Being understood (someone who gets him) Freedom to be himself-without concern of judgment Partnership
What do you most fear about being in a relationship? Judgment
Fear that if they see the other side of me women won’t like me Wondering if this is the “right” relationship Wondering if I will live up to expectations
Wondering how long the relationship will last
What are your must haves in a relationship?
Support Affection Communication Attraction Common Interests Sexual Compatibility Did I say communication? Someone who is actively engaged in their own life Respect Compassion
What are your deal breakers?
Smoking Excessive Weight Serial murders Couch Potatoes Ultra Conservative Religious Views Sports Fanatics Someone who is Unavailable (Not available is not available)
What do you wish women knew about men?
That they don’t already know?!? Not all men want the same thing We don’t all think alike
What are your top three priorities in your life today?
Financial Success Finding a Lifetime Partner Ecological Transformation
What do you wish you knew about women? Why they ask, “Does this outfit make me look fat”? (It’s a trick question) Why they don’t ask (directly) for what they want Why that can’t be straight and tell me what they really want
What question are you happy I didn’t ask? Extensive questions about sex
What is the most valuable lesson you have learned from your past relationships?
To ask for what I want Communication is very important even if it is difficult to say what needs to be said or if what is said is difficult to hear-it’s all in how ones say it. Enjoy the moment Being present in the moment
What are you committed to having in your next relationship?
See answers to question #9 Luscious Fun Enriching Connection
What do you feel you bring to a relationship?
Intense Passion Fun Understanding Patience (most of the time) Forgiveness-always Love Affection Imperfection Adventure