Lerner, H. The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Pattern of Intimate Relationships (2005).Geared towards women (but applicable to men), The Dance of Anger (and the Dance of Intimacy- another book by Lerner) focus on unhealthy patterns of relating and the importance of developing a stronger and more independent sense of self.
Moore, John. Confusing Love with Obsession: When Being in Love Means Being In Control (2006).Provides a useful description of the addictive cycle that can characterize “Stuck in Love” relationships. Offers a model for stepping back and understanding how and why we get “hooked.”
A site (organized nationally with branches for different cities and regions) that takes you to services of interest to single adults of all ages. Links up to internet dating sites, current books on flirting, local organizations, and events. It has many links and many advertisers. Although there is a strong focus on dating and connecting, a new section, called "Boomer Pulse" also addresses issues such as retirement planning.
The Quirkyaone website describes itself as "a community of independent thought on singledom, life, and love." A Quirkyalone is "a person who enjoys being single (but is not opposed to being in a relationship) and generally prefers to be alone rather than dating for the sake of dating." There is a questionnaire to help you determine your "quirky" status as well as an on-line community.
www.singlesonthego.com A national site, organized as well by geographical regions, which lists singles clubs,groups,events and activities. Has listings of singles groups and dating services classified as well by religious and cultural background.
Humorful and helpful site from the UK devoted to break up support and advise. Includes such things as a collection of break-up lines, 10 tips to get over a break up, suggested music, and books to read. There is a place where you can add your own "being dumped" line. Unlike many sites that try to fix you or sell you things, this site has a personal and personable tone.
Second Love at First Click by Stephanie Rosenbloom: On Line Date for users 55 and up...(NYT 10/6/2011)